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10/4/09 12:06![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
karriezaiI talked to Danny about yesterday. At first he was actually upset; he said it hurts that we're building our lives together and planning even things like kids names and I didn't trust him. I reassured him that of course I trust him not to cheat on me. I mean, that doesn't mean it's not still upsetting. I explained that he doesn't even know Morgan's friend; she could tell a friend who tells a friend and get him in trouble. If not legal trouble, maybe just Morgan's dad found out and she has to quit Gamestop and never see him again trouble. And I told him that yeah, I do have this maybe irrational discomfort at the idea that he was home alone with two teenaged girls drinking, but just think about what something like that would look like to an outsider looking in. Danny's usually the one who cares about propriety and appearances way more than me.
He said he's been helping underaged people get alcohol for ten years, referring to the house parties he used to throw and such, and that's all it was; they said they didn't get to drink on Spring Break and just wanted to get a chance to do that. He said he was going to just convince them to go to Dave and Busters from the beginning and hang out there but he couldn't afford to pay for all of them to play games.
I mean, none of that makes it better, of course. It was a dumb idea on multiple levels. But he won't do it again.
Bah, boys are dumb. I feel a lot better. I just hope he understands that while I absolutely trust that he won't cheat, I was still justified in being upset, because I'm not sure he got that at first.
He said he's been helping underaged people get alcohol for ten years, referring to the house parties he used to throw and such, and that's all it was; they said they didn't get to drink on Spring Break and just wanted to get a chance to do that. He said he was going to just convince them to go to Dave and Busters from the beginning and hang out there but he couldn't afford to pay for all of them to play games.
I mean, none of that makes it better, of course. It was a dumb idea on multiple levels. But he won't do it again.
Bah, boys are dumb. I feel a lot better. I just hope he understands that while I absolutely trust that he won't cheat, I was still justified in being upset, because I'm not sure he got that at first.