Yeah, that is a bit much. You recall my situation with Christine and her best friend -- I definitely felt like he had a higher priority than me at times. Of course, the situation is different; he's developing this really close friendship after going out with you for a few years.
Have an honest and frank talk, and be sure not to hold back with the way you feel. If you feel like he should be scaling back on this friendship, that you'd feel more comfortable if he had more guy friends or more friends that were local, than his asking about it should mean he's open to changing things. Coworker situations can be delicate because of all the time they spend together already, but you are more significant by far.
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11/3/09 17:43 (UTC)Have an honest and frank talk, and be sure not to hold back with the way you feel. If you feel like he should be scaling back on this friendship, that you'd feel more comfortable if he had more guy friends or more friends that were local, than his asking about it should mean he's open to changing things. Coworker situations can be delicate because of all the time they spend together already, but you are more significant by far.