Oooh a peacock. :) And I haven't seen you on here in forever and ever.
I did talk to him finally. Twice actually. Apparently all the things that bother me are coming to the surface. With the Morgan thing, he told me I'm right and he wasn't being fair, and he hasn't been posting on her Facebook or anything since.
Last night I talked to him about the way he doesn't like physical affection and he pushes me away all the time, and how even if I ask him to do something little I like (playing with my hair or whatever), he won't do it and he doesn't put in any effort to try for things like that. I'm still not 100% on this because it sucks being pushed away all the time and I just get this feeling that these things that annoy him would be a turn on for most guys (like, you know, wanting sex more than two or three times a week or just wanting him in general).
But I'm trying to hold back. I told him, "I need those sorts of things from time to time. If you don't want me to push them on you, then you need to offer them sometimes." And he said he would. So I'm going to try to just leave him the hell alone and see how much he comes to me. He did kiss me this morning without me bothering him, so maybe it'll work out fine.
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2/11/10 18:08 (UTC)I did talk to him finally. Twice actually. Apparently all the things that bother me are coming to the surface. With the Morgan thing, he told me I'm right and he wasn't being fair, and he hasn't been posting on her Facebook or anything since.
Last night I talked to him about the way he doesn't like physical affection and he pushes me away all the time, and how even if I ask him to do something little I like (playing with my hair or whatever), he won't do it and he doesn't put in any effort to try for things like that. I'm still not 100% on this because it sucks being pushed away all the time and I just get this feeling that these things that annoy him would be a turn on for most guys (like, you know, wanting sex more than two or three times a week or just wanting him in general).
But I'm trying to hold back. I told him, "I need those sorts of things from time to time. If you don't want me to push them on you, then you need to offer them sometimes." And he said he would. So I'm going to try to just leave him the hell alone and see how much he comes to me. He did kiss me this morning without me bothering him, so maybe it'll work out fine.