miffed.

[karriezai]

So I swear half of all Danny's Facebook comments are on Morgan's statuses. Still. And he refuses to put her number back in his phone but they still text, it just shows the full number. He has no confidence in himself and said the reason he doesn't put her number back in is so he doesn't drunk dial her. He says he wants to distance himself from her and go incommunicado unless she texts him first, but that doesn't apply to Facebook apparently. And he can't be friends with girls (...or else what...?) but it sure seems like he's still trying with her.

This annoys the HELL out of me but I don't want to bother with bringing it up because it causes such a commotion and I always end up feeling bad for feeling bad, and he never wants to tell me what he's feeling anyway.

I wouldn't feel so paranoid if he wasn't so closed off and self-contradictory about it all. Like... if he honestly thought he could be friends with girls, okay. But he doesn't. So what the fuck is he doing?

Comments

Objectivity

[lucidwanderer.livejournal.com]

I hate to say it, but you've got to consider over the life of the relationship how needs are being met and where compromises are being made. You can't compromise all the time. Also, after the honeymoon period (which I assume you're over), a relationship has got to be a source of security and comfort without extra effort from one person beyond which they are willing to give for the rest of their life.

It seems like you're really trying, and that it is your dissatisfaction that's really present, and not so much his. Seems very hard problem. It's possible he has a crush on Morgan, which would make him temporarily less interested in you, but I don't know enough.